Photography subjects - Off Limits

[danalive]

I've been fighting with a lot of the questions you are all posing. I'm very much an amateur photographer, however I have thought a lot about my passion for photographing people and in other public situations. Being a shy person, I would find it difficult to deal with the rejection of my photography out in the street. I have my rights printed out and stored in my camera bag, however being an artform I find it really unfortunate (I have more frustrating words in mind!) that we have to deal with such things.

Does anyone have tips on how to deal with such situations? This may be a good place to share it.

I totally understand the fears people have, such as those which parents may have about little children. However it's probably more a reflection on our society nowadays than something illegal. I have spoken to police personally about rights (in Australia anyway) and we as photographers definitely have them... though it is important to know them AND to deal with people (parents, policepeople, etc) with grace and respect, otherwise you are likely to get waved off regardless of the legality of a given situation.

Hopefully I haven't strayed too off topic!

[tirediron]

The top of my list for "Out of bounds" is people who don't want to be photographed. I very much enjoy photojournalism, BUT the idea of photographing someone who genuninely doesn't want to be photographed is repugnant to me. Now, if they don't know they're being photographed and don't say anything, that's a different story. Aside from that, gore, accidents, and those things already mentioned as not needing to be mentioned.

[Mad Aussie]

People is a common and reoccuring subject when it comes to things that are off limits or at least frightening in some to many of us. I'm the same. I don't photograph many people at all if you exclude those athletes in the sports I shoot.

So how do we go about finding a way to be comfortable shooting people? In Australia no one has the rights to their own image in terms of restricting a photographer from taking their photo. But I'm not comfortable with taking the photo of someone who doesn't want it taken either. I'm also not really keen to pay every person I shoot for the privilege of feeling easy about it either.

I'm thinking that at least having a business card to hand to them that shows you to be a serious photographer, even if you are just a hobbyist, is probably a good idea.
You could offer anyone who rejects the chance to view the photo on your website or Flickr album etc and perhaps, if they wish, you could send them a hi-res copy. That doesn't cost you and might encourage some people to be more relaxed with your presence after a while. Some will ham it up too I expect and others may not act natural.

Anyone else have any ideas or thoughts on this?

[AntZ]

I think it is a good idea, and something I have thought of doing. I'd be happy to give someone their hi-res photo in payment for a nice image. I basically do that every time I take pics at my kids soccer games. And by giving them your contact details rather than taking theirs, you put the onus on them to chase you down, not visa-versa. Of course that's not as good as a model release if you ever thought you wanted to use it commercially.

[naturequestphoto]

Someone's personal tragedy is out of bounds for me. Accident, death, fire..anything that would be considered a personal tragedy.
Weddings are not something I ever do, even for family and friends..they make me too stressed. I worry that things will not be right and it isn't a "do over" sort of shoot.

The very hardest shoot I have ever done was for a very young pregnant teen who placed her daughter with an adoptive family at birth. It followed her pregnancy and included shots of the adoptive parents with the birth parents. The last shoot was a portrait session with the birth parents and baby, just prior to the adoption being finalized and the baby going to her new family. The photos are for the baby's life album, as well as a keepsake for the birth mother.

[kkjensen]

Someone's personal tragedy is out of bounds for me. Accident, death, fire..anything that would be considered a personal tragedy.
Weddings are not something I ever do, even for family and friends..they make me too stressed. I worry that things will not be right and it isn't a "do over" sort of shoot.

I like being a part of the happiness of weddings and childbirth (no 'action' shots though...no need to remember those). I've never been the primary photographer though...some day perhaps. I'd like to tag along as an assistant and take some courses first.

My wife had a miscarriage and we had a tough time with it. While doing some reading I came across a group called "Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep" which seemed to connect with me in a different sort of way once I started to see the kinds of pictures are taken and what people had to say. "Healing photos" is the term I heard once...pictures that take us back to a specific memory so we don't ever forget. Has anyone on this forum ever volunteered for NILMDTS?

[Dark Woods]

I really love doing street punks and fashion photography, however, I am too shy to ask and scared that punks will hate me for taking there photos. However, to some of the replies above.. weddings are fairly easy peasy.. there are typical shots that are expected and the ones that are not usually are cool but never get purchased, like CU of cakes, rings, feet..etc..

Nudes, are easy too.. I am totally grossed out by nude people UNLESS I am behind my camera.. Then it is soo easy. I feel separated by the lens so just don't tell your photographer about your stretch marks, scars and dry acne you have on your butt, legs, thighs and breast and you will do just fine.. as a model.

I am kind of like the guy who said he couldn't do accidents. I get that one too.. I cannot.. I have seen too many motorcycle, pedestrian accidents of people's brains and faces gone.. gross me out.. one site that sticks out in my mind is ridetodie.com

Also I probably would not do sports.. sounds soo boring to me that I don't care bout it much.. although I do like some of the good photographers that use that high fashion with action look on some of the sports pics, but I really don't like athletics much..or sports in general..

Others are nature, landscape photos.. boring.. they are all pretty but same stuff and the pics are not very interesting to me..

[Xenos]

I can't really say anything is 'Off Limits'. I am however uncomfortable with a lot of people shots. I just get nervous. I DO NOT take pictures of kids unless I know them, the parents and those around.

I've never just walked up to someone and ask them if I can take their photo. Although I am getting a lot more people asking me to take their picture when I'm doing some club shots for some of my DJ friends.

In the last while I've become more comfortable with photographing girls, I was approached by a girl I know who wanted to add to her portfolio but was tight on cash and figured I could maybe help her. We did a number of head shots, lots of different clothes and some semi nudes. This has netted me a bunch of quick work with other models she knows as well. I guess I just had to get the first one out of the way.